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Prop 8 = “Just” Hate: A Look At The Absolutism of Marriage

I’d like to clearly state for the record that I am not by any means a lawyer in a classically trained, traditional sense. In the same right, I’ve never attended seminary or achieved any notable acclaim or accreditation as a cultural historian. However, after re-reading Plessy vs Ferguson and its subsequent reversal in Brown vs Board of Education, I find it very hard to understand the constitutional viability of Proposition 8 or any other measure with the same aim of restricting the ability for homosexuals to enjoy and engage in any and all federal or state institutions which non-homosexuals, based solely on the supposed merit of their not being homosexual, are afforded the opportunity to enjoy.

The first issue concerning the institution of marriage, and the legitimacy of subsequent modal manifestation, is whether it truly exists at all. By that, I mean to consider its existence outside of the mind, in a concrete absolute sense. If the institution of marriage does in fact exist, then in the same absolute sense that some believe God to exist, it should be acceptable that, like all other things absolute, no matter time or place, in this universe, dimension, or any other it will be as discernible then and there as it is here and now. If that is indeed the case, then the institution of marriage must have certain innate characteristics in order to be discernible in the event that all recollection of it ceases to exist. Subsequently, in order to be discernible to those unfamiliar with current human thought, the only truly innate defining characteristics of marriage must be devoid of those which cease to exist upon decomposition of the mind. All characteristics ascribed to marriage which exist only so long as the mind in which they inhabit exists are merely modalities of a particular manifestation and have no bearing as to what the absolute definition of marriage is or is not.

According to Leibnez’s Law, any and all manifestations of marriage, in order to be legitimate forms of marriage, must all posses the same predicates, or for our discussion, characteristics. The fact that the act of marriage, getting married, and being married, and the privileges there afforded, has been widely acknowledged and accepted as a right universal to all citizens of the United States regardless of religious affiliation, race, or creed, is a paramount tenet to the singularity and absolutism of the institution. In a broader sense, specific race, creed, and religious affiliation are not innate characteristics of the definition of marriage; any person, regardless of the aforementioned, can manifest a true instance of marriage. Logically, if it were not so, many instances, or rather types of things resembling marriage, would already exist, and although it wouldn’t negate the existence of a singular institution of ‘absolute’ marriage, it would certainly make it harder to reasonably argue that any manifestation of marriage truly and completely resembled absolute marriage any more than any other. Although different in circumstance, celebration, and execution, Jews, Christians, Blacks, Whites, Theists and Atheists must be able to engage the same way since otherwise the institution of marriage ceases to exist ‘absolutely’ when differences based on things like race, creed, or religious affiliation, which exist only within the mind, are applied.

With these things in mind, one can easily define the absolute existence of marriage, which acts as a template for all manifestations, as containing any and all characteristics which are common to all marriages and exist outside of the human mind. This definition works because it allows the existence of marriage to be absolute, singular, and rediscernable. In order to do so, one need only look to the characteristics that make up all marriages and decide whether each individual characteristic can be rediscernable in the event that the human mind ceases to exist. While it is correct to assert that all marriages involve two beings, as numbers and mathematics exist outside the human mind, it is incorrect to assert that all marriages are dependent on specific gender differences or non-differences. Proponents of Proposition 8 will argue for the inclusion of, “All marriages involve one male and one female,” into the definition, but this would be ill advised and erroneous as the difference of gender, and subsequent gender roles, ceases to exist upon decomposition of the human mind, and therefore cannot be considered litmus for marriage validity.

Without delving too far into the topic of gender, consider the simultaneous yet completely different evolution of gender across cultures throughout history. To define gender in an absolute, rediscernable sense is difficult if not impossible as no characteristic differences exist outside of the human perception of them, and furthermore many understandings of gender exist. Any person arguing the validity of absolute characteristics of gender differences that are not purely biological has no basis for their argument other than sexism as only science exists outside the human mind. This would include the notion of ‘mom’ and ‘dad’ as well as ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ as absolutely male or female specific roles. While some may assert that typically the female of the species fulfills the non-biological role of ‘mom,’ any assumption of universality further is mere speculation and hogwash.

However unreasonable it has hereto been shown, some will still argue that marriage is inherently religious, and God, who also exists outside of the human mind, trumps all human understanding of the institution. However, in my opinion, the American institution of marriage, in the most traditional yet modern day sense, requires the recognition of only one entity, the state. While Christians, specifically Catholics, embrace marriage as a sacrament or pseudo-sacrament with the intent to represent the union of one man and one woman in the eyes of God outside the boundary of government jurisdiction, upon the addition, acceptance, and execution of various legal benefits attached to the institution, it becomes immediately secularized and subject to government jurisdiction.

Based upon the information presented hereto, that one, if it does in fact exist in an absolute sense, marriage cannot be defined as the union of one man and one woman, but rather only as the union of two beings, and two, marriage in The United States of America is a secular institution, in conjunction with the constitution, in consideration with previous Supreme Court decisions regarding civil rights, it should easily be seen that any attempt by government to restrict the right of homosexuals to be afforded the institution of marriage and the rights therein afforded is both unconstitutional and tyrannical.

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4 comments for “Prop 8 = “Just” Hate: A Look At The Absolutism of Marriage”

  1. Very well put. A writer I work with recently articulated a few of the same thoughts. You might find them interesting:

    http://www.meltingpotproject.com/mpp/i-see-gay-people-why-dont-you-america.html

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    Posted by Joe | November 10, 2008, 6:09 pm
  2. A metaphysical treatise on marriage. Excellent!

    I was in CA on Election Day (sojourning from my Florida habitat) and i was disappointed to see the passage of this sad initiative in both of those states. Here is my take: to describe something as a “right” is to affirm its universality. If something is limited to a select set of humans, then it cannot be described as a right.

    NB - the Declaration of Independence: “We are endowed by Our Creator with certain inalienable rights”.

    Inalienable: unchanging.

    Our Creator: these rights are not made by man and cannot be taken away by man.

    On a more basic level, our constitution protects minorities from the tyranny of the majority. That the majority cannot gather together to vote away the rights of a minority is well established in our law. These propositions must be overturned by our courts, or our concept of justice will crumble under the weight of our hypocrisy.

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    Posted by jericho4119 | November 10, 2008, 6:42 pm
  3. I believe that Marriage must be defined by the function it plays in maintaining good order in a society. It is a community contract which gives the players both inside of it and outside of it both explicit rights and responsibilities. The players inside (spouses) give certain exclusivity rights each to the other and remove them from those outside the marriage. In most cases this means that the spouses agree not to look outside the marriage for sexual or romantic satisfaction. However even when an open marriage is proposed there are still certain negotiations between the spouses that define how their particular experience of marriage will play out.

    The players outside the marriage have the responsibility then of not intruding upon the rights contracted within relationship. Most times this means not messing around with a married man (or woman) but it may mean a responsibility to respect other areas where the rights of the spouses are contracted to take precedence over the rights of non spouses.

    In essence the community is as essential to the existence and functioning of the institution. Without a community which supports the proposed contract, the institution loses meaning.

    This is the definition you seek that crosses cultural lines. It’s a community definition in that without a community which recognizes and respects the contract the contract holds no meaning. In this case the community was asked to support a single type of marriage and no other. The community affirmed that definition.

    I do not see marriage as individual right. If it were then we would already be ok, becuase everyone has the right to get married to a partner of the opposite sex. Yes i know, not what you wanted. But still the right exists regardless of the sexual orientation of the individual entering the marriage. Whether this appeals to everyone is not the concern of the community. The community must only be concerned with adopting a definition which it can support and defend.

    If this is something an individual does not want to do because of their own moral or sexual inclinations (hey no judgements here i really don’t care who anyone but my wife sleeps with) then they have taken advantage of the marriage by choosing the right not to get married. If they wish to enter into a relationship that the public at large does not wish to support then they can have no expectation that the rest of the community should adopt their views and support the official status of their marriage contract.

    Personally i wish the vote had failed. However it did not and I respect the will of the voters. Marriage (despute the current popular opinion) means a great deal to the well ordered functioning of any and every community. The commmunity as a whole therefore must come to agreement as to which relationships it will support and which it will not.

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    Posted by mockeryjones | November 11, 2008, 4:56 pm
  4. Jericho,
    I see your point. Marriage is not just an individual contract, but one between the individuals and the community. However, as a socially responsible individual, I cannot accept the fact that some people are allowed to take part in a marriage that follows their sexual inclinations, while others are not. If we all sit around and say that we respect the opinion of the voters and do nothing to change it, then we might as well have voted for Proposition 8 ourselves.

    I guess my conclusion is that I need to do what I can to raise awareness in “the community” so that “the community” will “adopt their views and support the official status of their marriage contract.”

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    Posted by BusyB | November 12, 2008, 8:08 pm

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